Alright, I think we need to have a serious chat ladies. Now you have all heard me say ‘Men are Trash” if my life had a Catch phrase that would be it.
I think I’ve had enough grounds to say men are rubbish for the past couple years, but something else has been happening. I think I might have to take my words back just a little bit, men can still be trash let’s be clear but some women like trash. I won’t talk about having respect for yourself because I don’t think that’s the problem. When a woman goes back to a man who left her to have a baby with someone else and mistreated her, then he comes back and gets her pregnant. That’s a woman who is afraid to love herself, and is terrified that no one else will love her either. Its a lot of other shit too but I’m trying to be politically correct so yeah.
After all the developments we’ve made, and are making in female history. The love and affection of a man is still very important to many women & at the top of many priority list. Yes my life could be going to shit, I could be performing below my lowest standards, I might have disappointed myself, my parents and everyone who believed in me but I have a man that loves me and that’s all that matters. Let me tell YOU right now I AM JEALOUS of that mind set. This is my blog and I’m going to be raw and honest with you always, when I meet women like that I make up excuses to not hang out with them. If your man is at the top of your priority list, we don’t have anything in common.
There are women out there who don’t want better for themselves and who will sit in relationships because they are so in love. Let’s not compare abusive relationships where you can’t get out because he controls everything. No that’s not what I’m talking about I have seen men straight up tell women they don’t want them, treated them like flies. Some of these men have moved on with their lives and homegirl found a way back in there, because LOVE.
It’s hard to start over, but when you put the happiness of your vagina and your ego before your own children, before your own dreams (to be fair some of you don’t have any dreams but ok) then men aren’t the problem, You are your problem. We’ve all had our hearts broken, so we learn from it and move forward hopefully in a way that is not destructive to ourselves. I don’t have children but if I did and a guy left me, he’s not coming back. We can be co-parents and we can be civil but don’t come back I’ve moved on even if it’s just with myself. Some women like being the victim, oh woe is me, he broke my heart I can’t go on blah, blah, blah, the children. I was rooting for you, We were all rooting for you and then you got back with your EX!!!! Don’t get me wrong im not talking about a simple break up where both parties took a break or anything like that, maybe you both agreed to see other people. You know dam well that’s not what I’m talking about, YOU ALL KNOW WHICH RELATIONSHIPS I’M TALKING ABOUT!.
My relationship could go to shit tomorrow morning, but I always put myself first so a failed relationship is the least of my worries. Have a great week love bunnies.
xox Lauren
This was a good read, thank you.
So true hon!!!