I’ve been in California two months now and officially became a Cali girl two weeks ago when my drivers license arrived in the mail. I’ve been getting a lot of questions about how I’m liking it so far and the answer is I’m LOVING IT!!! The very first couple of weeks were rough, as we didn’t get all our furniture and we had to jump right into work, none the less forever grateful to the Universe for aligning all our stars.
When I buy clothes I try to think about the pieces or things I hold on to the longest. For me those are my purses, everything else I like them for a while and then I hate them. So I don’t spend a lot of money on many things because of my temperament however everyone is different. My friend Najeary and I came up with a few things we don’t think you need to spend a lot of money on if you don’t have disposable income like that (that is).
I was having this conversation with one of my best friends about two months ago, it’s funny that the situation has come up again. A beautiful black woman walks into a room and the first thing the room starts to do is dissect her beauty. “Her hair is fake she would look terrible without it.” Don’t forget the makeup argument that has been going on since youtube started showing tutorials. The history of female beauty has always been sort of like a facade if you want call it that.
It’s no secret I have been really loving all these sheer pieces I’m seeing popping up just about everywhere. I’m not a huge lace fan, but every now and again I dabble in a few select pieces. I don’t know why but lace has always made me think of curtains and old ladies and though there is nothing wrong with either of the two, I have never really found it appealing.
I have two stories to tell both of them happened within 24 hours of each other. This world can be one of the coldest places in the galaxy, but buried within it are good people. A couple days ago I was in a store (as usual), the guy at the register had a bunch of clothes. When the cashier told him his bill he realized he didn’t have enough money so he was going put some back. There was an older lady behind him, she looked like she was in her early fifties, she was an older white woman and he was a young black male in his very early twenties, in a couple of seconds something truly amazing happened. Amazing to me since I don’t get to witness these things every day,
It’s time for some relationship advice, you know those girls who are with those guys who just won’t commit to them no matter what? He won’t commit, he cheats, he treats her like she’s beneath him and he probably occasionally hits her. But she stays because every now and again they have a good time. They’ve been together for so long that she doesn’t want to feel like she wasted all that time the thought of going back out unto the dating scene again scares her. She is staying in the relationship because he always apologized, and reminded her that they are meant to be. Two slaps and a bouquet of roses, how romantic. He can change she says, people change all the time and one day he will realize I’ve been here the whole time holding him down.
I was dying for a pair of high waisted flared pants. I would have preferred them in white, but you take what you can get in these streets. I found these in New York and Company about three months ago paid like forty to fifty dollars for them. Absolutely loved them and knew I needed them in my life. When I put them on I had on a typical fitted tank and
This cute little number just arrived from Shop Em – Everything Mahogany online Boutique. I have always wanted a cute little tunic with a bow tie, I saw Kourtney Kardashian wear something similar years ago and ever since then I have been on the hunt, I wanted a similar piece in my closet. When this little Bow Tie Tunic became available on one of my favorite online boutiques of course I got excited, Im hype right now. This is so cute for the summer.
