10 – Convince themselves the sex is good, the sex isn’t good sis shut up.
9 – Give Way too much credit!!! Women sometimes give men way too much credit and act like they are being done a huge favor. Relax sis, he would have brought anybody fast food at 2am in the morning if he was coming over to get pu$$y. It was never about you and give yourself some credit, half of what men do for women when they get serious about them, most of you Yam Heads, I’m sorry I mean most of you women will do it in the first few days.
8 – Completely Support Him and Forget That You Had Dreams Too – Ok so this might be a stretch, some of you genuinely don’t have dreams bigger than being somebody’s wife. Giving something up for the benefit of the relationship and not for the benefit of their well-being. For example quitting smoking & drinking will benefit you in the long run. Giving up your job just so you can be at home to have his dinner ready is a dumb thing 🙃. I get it if child care is expensive and it’s cheaper for one of you to stay home but also I don’t get it. In the end giving up something for him it will leave you bitter and when it is all said and done you’ll hate yourself, when he decides to leave (or you decide to leave).
7– They don’t sign prenups!!!! Yes I just said that, if you’ve been following me for years you know this is not something the old me would say. For so long we as women fell in love with the fairy tale and the man buying us flowers and taking care of us, but now more than ever women are stepping up and showing out. Three of my closest friends all launched businesses this year, more women are becoming business owners. A prenup isn’t just stopping you from getting a man’s money it’s also stopping him from getting your money, because you (hopefully if you’re reading this blog post) are on your way to becoming a BOSS ASS BITCH.
6 – They befriend the gossiper because they’re fun. Someone who can only talk to you about other people is a hazard, boss up your friend circle!! Get inspired to become a woman of influence, and I Dnt mean social media influencer, no disrespect but you get me.
5 – They start planning forever too early. Too many women are sure they want to marry the person they are dating but aren’t sure where they want to be in a year career wise. The older I get the more I realize a job is like a relationship and a bad job is like a bad relationship. A job where you just show up everyday for the health benefits, hate all your coworkers and think the CEO is legit moron with a lot of money. He never really makes sense half the time but he’s so rich nobody realizes, is no way to live. Ohhhhh wait, that’s literally my last job OOOPS !!! My point is, it’s just as important to have a career plan as it is to have a wedding plan 🙃
- 4 They CLING!!!, Yes men cling too but this is not about men is it. We all know that girl who starts dating and suddenly becomes busy every single weekend, and you wonder what she did before the relationship. When you replace all your “Single Moments” with couple activities a few things can happen. The first one being the most obvious but not compulsory, when you break up with that person you lose yourself. Leaving you to need to be in another relationship desperately, because you can’t remember how to ride this “Life” bike without training wheels.
3 – You’re too honest too soon! Honesty is the best policy or whatever they said. Relationships are not some sacred business deal from God. They are two fumbling idiots who are physically attracted to each other, convincing themselves that for now they can not live without the other person. You don’t need to tell someone you’re seeing every single part of your life in the first 6 months. As a matter of fact what if I told you you don’t have to tell them at all. Let me first go on to say I am NOT telling you to hide a baby and three wives!!!. I’m saying they dont need to know that you slept with your ex’s cousin when you were upset. That’s all.
2 – They Don’t cut the Cord when it’s time, When it’s time to end a relationship women can be so bad at it. I know cause I’m a woman too. Men tend to stay in a relationships, but mentally check out and are in the streets acting single until they find someone new and exciting to move on to. When a relationship is doe women try to fix it.
1 – They don’t apply for Jobs because they think they aren’t qualified enough. There’s a study that was done a few years ago which said that men will apply for a job even if they are not qualified for it, while women will overthink it and not apply. Stop doing this (I’m talking to myself too) Apply for the dam job. In every job I’ve ever had I can remember hearing a man say, I should be getting paid more” I have personally never heard a woman say that out loud.
Now this blog post isn’t to make anyone feel bad, and just because I use the pronouns, Her, Him, She, her, men or women does not mean I’m trying to leave anyone out. All are welcomed here, when I write blogs I write from a personal viewpoint and a place of familiarity. So please don’t take offense. Have an amazing week love bugs, here’s to the rest of our lives being beautiful.