It is very important to know who you are in today’s world, even if you are not yet the person you want to be. Fully grasping who you are and who you are trying to be is so important, because people are constantly telling us who to be and how to act. When people tell you, you should get your life together I want to confess something to you, that no one else will tell you. They don’t really want you to do that, they just like winding you up. The aim is not to motivate you to be better, the aim is to make them feel better about themselves by putting you down. It’s sickening that someone would use such an emotional time in your life as a ego trip for themselves. You will realize that the minute you’ve elevated yourself and they’re still hating and being negative when your name comes up, that it was never about you.
If you don’t know yourself, this world will have you rolling around like an idiot trying to prove the masses wrong or right, depending on what day it is. The world constantly wants us to prove ourselves to them, that’s when you need to ask yourself, why should I have to prove anything to a bunch of nosey strangers. But also for as many people who criticize us and try to throw negative energy at us to distract us from our destiny, there are even more people who support us and respect us. It’s very, very easy to get caught up with negativity. Negativity is an energy just like anything else, if you feed that fire it will grow. Some people are so absorbed with negativity, they read the tabloids daily, they subscribe to negative feeds and they know every celebrity who broke up last week. Some people live for gossip, what is gossip essentially? a bunch of people analyzing the lives and lifestyle of others in a negative way, let’s agree that gossip can never be good or positive because then it would no longer be gossip.
Don’t worry about what people have to say about you, that would be you focusing on the wrong things. There isn’t a soul on earth who doesn’t have something being said about them, and everyone has something being said about them. Don’t ever forget why you get out of bed every morning, the unqualified critics have their role and you have yours.
Give them something to talk about ………..